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On Having the Attention Span of a Gnat

I have the attention span of a gnat

I’ll put my hands up and admit that I have a very short attention span.

I’m a bit like a magpie to starting new things, but rarely do I see them through to the bitter end. And this is a thread that runs pretty much throughout my entire life.

There’s not one room in our house that has been fully decorated from start to finish. Hence why I’m often found opening doors with things like a pair of scissors, because who NEEDS door handles anyway?

I have a new money making idea nearly every week, which would be great, if I actually saw any of them through.

I’ve had 4 or 5 jobs in the last 10 years, each following a different career path. I get bored half way through books and TV series, and I even get bored half way though conversations. The latter of which is something my husband actively dislikes about me.

Apparently, it’s quite rude to stop listening, and even worse to let the person speaking know. Who knew?

In fact, the only thing I’ve really stuck with for any length of time, is my family. Aren’t they the lucky ones? (It’s at moments like these that you realise there should be an italic for sarcasm)

Anyway, although in many ways having a short attention span can be a good thing. For example, I think sheer boredom often leads me to try new things. In other ways, it’s something I don’t like about myself.

The reason for this is that with a short attention span, comes an element of flakiness. So although I have tons of enthusiasm at the start of a new project, give it time and both my interest and effort will begin to wane. And I often wonder whether this may have let me down in the past. Maybe if I had stuck at even just one job or project a little longer, I may have achieved more. You know?

I mean who’s to say that I wouldn’t also be bored stiff and miserable? That’s also a possibility.

Either way, it’s something I often think about, which is why it’s something I would love to change.

It’s bullshit, self-help advice, but I am finding that focussing on what I really want from life helps. Like right now, we would really like to move house, but the reality is that we need to be earning a little more before that becomes a possibility.

So, in spite of having two months of my worst earnings to date, I’ve found the motivation to work a little harder, by realising that I’m not going to get where I want to be, without a little persistence. You know, that thing I’m really awful at.

I’ve been trying out a couple of different ways of keeping my mind on track. Firstly, I’ve changed the way I write my to do lists. Sounds simple enough, right? But how can changing the way you write a list improve the way you work?

Well, I dunno, but I’ve started using this method and it really works for me. I think there’s something about the ticking circles that’s a game changer to the way I work. God knows why!

I’ve also become a real bore and cut back on wine. I do love it, but it doesn’t love me. And I’ve noticed that the amount I drink and how anxious I feel are pretty closely correlated, which just cancels out the fun.

(That said, I’m have a child-free night on Saturday, so expect lots of contradictory posts on Instagram stories … I’m nothing if not consistently inconsistent)

And mostly, I’m just trying to change my mindset. I think I’ve spent a lot of time waiting for a great epiphany over what I should be doing and the reality is that this doesn’t happen for a lot of people. (I think this is even more true for Mums, because just how the hell are we meant to fit it all in?)

We don’t all come up with a great money making idea or suddenly discover a great passion for any one path in life. The vast majority of us just bumble along, and that’s fine.

I just want to try to make sure that I bumble along in the best way I can and hopefully one day, get that next house.



  1. November 9, 2017 / 10:47 am

    I’m nodding along with you Kerry, I think you may well be my double. Every single room in our house is unfinished and I’m always starting something and then get distracted by something else. I need to focus more and get things done, I do find making lists helps – well a little! x

  2. November 13, 2017 / 10:56 am

    Oh me too! To most of this to be honest.
    I am so easily distracted and end up doing a million things at ones and completing none of them so that just results in feeling like a failure.
    I’ve dug out my bullet journal again and finding that is helping me stay more focused and productive. It’s not a pretty one though, just functional. x

  3. November 13, 2017 / 3:33 pm

    Aww Kerry what a lovely post and I am sure a great source of words to look back on when you are feeling a little lost. I agree with lists and to-do’s – its good to keep a track of where you are now, what to be and how much you achieved. We do this every year as a family and then soon after Christmas we sit down again together and review and re write a whole new plan. I hope you manage to find the answer but love how you are approaching it x

  4. November 15, 2017 / 10:51 am

    Oh yes I definitely think a good list and a way to organize yourself keeps you on track. I think we all have so much going on we all bump from here to there and trying to attempt 10% of each little thing never fully finishing off that to do list. Mine has never been empty ever! Ahhh I feel anxious just thinking about it but I have learned my a master list for the week but each morning make a mini doable list for just that day it helps me not feel overwhelmed by it all. #wrc

  5. October 21, 2018 / 1:03 pm

    Love how you bumble along, being easily distracted, but still produce some of the most creative and beautiful images in my Instagram feed. Consistently. And you ALWAYS make me laugh, loudly. Ok, that’s not very hard to do, but you do manage to provoke real deeply felt belly laughs – there’s an attractive image. Anyway, point is, don’t be too hard on yourself for being inconsistent. Cos from the outside looking in, you seem pretty hard working and focussed. Even if you do have to walk everywhere sideways cos your chin is permanently stuck to one of your shoulders and you have a rogue hand which appears to be only occasionally receiving instructions from your brain. ;oP x

    • Kerry
      November 26, 2018 / 6:40 pm

      Ah Andrew! This is such a lovely comment to leave. Thank you so much! xxx

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